Are you holding something that you need to let go?

Have you ever gone through that point in your life when you are tired? Tired of talking about your past, what went wrong? The people who have hurt you and never apologised for what they did to you. Things that happened to you that you thought you didn't deserve? Then again, you ask yourself if not me then who? These stories are over told, worn out and no longer have elasticity.

I am at that point where I have grown tired of talking about my past. That is why it is called the past, I have gone past it and through those experiences. It has a way of weighing me down; honestly I am not there anymore. Why should I live in my past when I have the present to enjoy?

My life has changed drastically. I have many new things to look forward to new relationship, new friendships, a new career and I am graduating soon. There is so much to celebrate, exciting events are happening in my life.

I got great advice from my friend as I was about to feel sorry for myself. She asked me to take a toilet roll and write on it all the things that I am not happy about that happened in the past. I wrote on those sheets of paper until I had nothing to say. After that she told me to flush it in the toilet because that is where it belongs. I did exactly as I was instructed and afterwards it felt better to just let go!